First off, the shaving arguments. Since I'm one who shaves I'll tell my side, then highlight a few other reasons I've heard about for shaving. I first started shaving my legs and arms many years ago, say around 2000 or before, because I really didn't like the way my legs looked when they were all hairy. For me, body hair is just unattractive anywhere but on our heads. I didn't even like pubic hair on myself or on women, so one day I decided to try trimming my leg and arm hair. I got out a pair of electric hair clippers and put a number 1 guide on it and proceeded to cut my hair down to a very short length. I was to afraid to cut it off completely because I thought others would think I looked to feminine, or I would look like a 'sissy' and I thought leaving a little behind would make it ok. Well I went out among family and friends and no one even mentioned it, which I thought was surprising, but very cool. But I usually let it grow back out and would only trim it now and then. A few times, mostly in the winter, I would shave my legs but often thought they looked 'weird' shaved because they seemed really shiny and I just wasn't used to that look. But eventually I started to love the look of my shaved legs and started shaving them more often.
This went on for several years then I met my current wife, Carla, and things really changed. Turns out, she loved the look of my legs shaved, and she also hated leg and body hair so she encouraged me to shave them regularly, as well as to keep my toes painted all the time and to go out in public with both my shaved legs and painted toes showing. At first it was a little different, but in a short amount of time it seemed more normal to have them shaved, with my painted toes showing, than not. And I now feel that I don't look at all feminine just because I shave my legs and have never had even One single negative or positive comment about my shaving. I was amazed that no one noticed, but no one, not even family noticed. Now people notice my toes, but the comments are 99% positive as I've mentioned before, but I truly think nobody even realizes that I shave my body.
And now, my wife loves shaving them for me. We are lucky to have a large bathtub that we can both fit into and she shaves me from my neck to my toes which is a very sensual experience I might add. It relaxes me so much and I really look forward to the shaving nights, so now I get a double benefit out of having shaved legs.
Now on to some reasons to shave your body. I'm sure there are more than what I'll list here, but these are the ones I can think of off the top of my head. If you have others, please post them in the comments below.
Reasons To Shave your body-
- It looks better to many of us
- If feels great
- There's no hair to grab, pull, get caught in clothing, etc
- You are far less sweaty in areas where you shave. My underarms need almost no deodorant now for example
- With less sweat lingering around, you have much less odor
- Bike riders and swimmers say there's less resistance & you can go faster, plus less road rash if you do crash
- If you like to wear pantyhose for warmth in the winter, they fit better with shaved legs. (I prefer them over thermals as they are less binding and thinner, but still provide some warmth)
- You don't have to worry about hair being a problem during sex. You know what I mean, so I'll leave it at that, lol.
- Much less hair to clog up your drains
- Painted toes just don't look right with hairy toes, to me anyway. Actually I think hairy toes are very bad looking so I would prefer guys to at least shave their toes if they paint them.
Reasons for NOT shaving might include-
- It's far easier to not shave
- Some guys think they look to feminine with painted toes and shaved legs. I disagree, but to each his own.
- Hmm, that's all I can think of, lol.
Well that's about it for this post. And I appologize for not posting as much lately, but we've been moving into a new house for the last month and I've been working 7 days a week for about 2 months.
Lets hear from others on this subject.
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Well, I have to admit that your site has given me much freedom and I have done much experimenting since finding your site. I first tried wearing the polish in public and all is fine except for the Mrs. She didn't really like it to much. Maybe I should try toes before fingers. One thing I have liked about wearing polish is the care I take in my nails to get them to grow longer. I am trying to get them all to an overall 1 inch. I decided to take on the challenge in this post of shaving/trimming. I decided shave some parts and trim others. I like the shaved parts much better. Especially with a treatment of Almond Oil after shaving. The Oil gives a smooth texture that feels great. But now the upkeep, had stubble after a day... :-( BUT, the Mrs thinks I am trying to be more/too feminine. I say, NO, it just feels good and fun.
ReplyDeleteMen should not have these limitations set upon us and have people think we want to be more fem. After shaving/trimming I have to admit i like my appearance much better. I didn't realize how much body hair is kinda icky..
Just not sure how to proceed, kinda frustrating. I want to continue the polish and shave/ trimming, but I don't need the Mrs getting sad and scared that I am indulging in feminine acts..
Thoughts and encouragement would be welcomed!!
i to shave and polish as well as a few other things to boot. my wife is fine with it and helps at times. she really likes it when we do each others toe nails at the same time . as far as the shaving keep going , its teadious at times but well worth it for comfort . i was even turned on to a trick for jock itch by my dr , it requires shaving and womens underwear ( panties) it works very well too.
DeleteI too shave all my body hair except chest she likes to play with it and paint my toes as well have been doing both for over a year and am 50 i love the way it feels with no body hair and toes look better
ReplyDeleteIf you paint your toes, it looks way better if you at least remove the hair from your toes; this is just my opinion.
ReplyDeleteI am jealous of you! I would love to be shaved all over and have my toes painted! I can not stand my hairy body. LOL! I have a feminine side but the society that I live in is very intolerant of different people. I am married but she has no understanding, so it is not discussed. I would be so happy If I could be who I really am! Love your blog!
ReplyDeleteme im shaved from nose to toes! lol toe nails are cherry red at the moment
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ReplyDeleteHi I just found this blog and I can say, I'm impressed. Don't have a personal story of my own, though I can say my family wouldn't understand.
About the reasons to shave hair and to not, here's my thoughts. 3) has been a personal finding of mine, and 4) & 5) make a lot of sense, since I tend to sweat a lot in hotter weather and stink more.
As for reasons to not shave, the only one I could think of is the possibility of getting in-grown hairs.
A lot of you here seem to like the idea of time with your spouse in shaving, painting nails etc, but coming from the perspective of a perpetually single guy who may have no aspirations of getting a girlfriend or wife, and who hates taking the time to shave, what do you think about the possibility of laser hair removal to make it permanent, beyond the obvious expensive price?
Personally, I would LOVE laser hair removal. I can find other ways to spend time with the spouse doing things like a massage, etc. But cost would be HUGE for a man since we have so much hair everywhere and it takes many trips to get it all.
DeleteI too shave from nose to toes accept that I pluck my toe hairs as it lasts longer. My tip for those of you concerned with ingrown hairs after shaving is to use an exfoliant before you shave and the day after. I use an apricot scrub and my skin feels much smoother and softer, not to mention that I usually only need to shave every third or forth day. After shaving I use "mango Shea butter" by tree hurt and I can't speak highly enough of it. Thanks to all for sharing.
ReplyDeleteGreat tips Allan, thanks for sharing them.
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